So… What is your fantasy?

I don’t know about you, but I get asked this A LOT!

It occurred to me that, I believe, we tend to put several things in the fantasy bucket that are not in-fact be a “fantasy”.

Urban Dictionary says that a Sexual Fantasy is: Imagining sexual things that may/may not be possible. Wishful thinking.

A “Fantasy” by definition is: The forming of mental images, especially wondrous or strange fancies; imaginative conceptualizing.

I believe we do fantasize but I think when it comes to most sexual fantasies they are actually desires. Let’s face it, most can be brought into being.

If you have a fantasy to sleep with a celebrity, that might be just that, a fantasy, as it may not actually come true. On the other hand it just might. I, of course, wish you luck with that. I have a list myself that I would like to make into playmates.

On the other hand, if it is a place, a real place, then you most likely, even with a little work can make it a reality. Want to fuck at work? Most of the time this can happen. Want to fuck in a public place? Again, people do this all the time, although being arrested can be a real turn-off.

Do you want your partner to dress-up for you? Do you have a kink you want them to be? This again is a doable request, sometimes with a little work, but with the internet at your disposal, anything is pretty much possible.

So, what does that leave? Trying something new? A new position? Throw is some bondage? Add a little food? Add some sensations or sex toys? Add multiple partners? It is interesting because I am willing to bet you can find a “How To” on almost anything on the web.

What does that leave us with? Well if you said you wanted to be part unicorn and part mermaid and have sex underwater because you can breathe down there as that combination, well hell, that is a fantasy. A weird one, but I am sure someone has had it.

I on the other hand have desires that involve places, such as having a playmate go down on me while sitting on a throne in a castle in Ireland. I mean, a girl does want to feel like a queen at times.

So, what is your desire, kink or if you truly have one, your fantasy?

#Whoretip: Always go for what excites you. Make sure though that your partner is always willing to play the same game as you!

xoxo

Dalia

 

 

Valentine’s Day

Hello All,

It is that time of year again for possibly one of the most sex filled holidays on record. Unless of course you count any time you can wrap yourself up as a present. Oh, and Halloween where it seems like the challenge is how to end up with the least amount of clothes and still call it a “costume”. I think my costume of just a pirate patch is amazing.

Although, we have defiantly made the V-Day into an epic candy, flower and card filled holiday, it didn’t start off that way. It actually has some VERY dark roots dating back to the time of the Romans.

From Feb. 13 to 15, the Romans celebrated the feast of Lupercalia. The men sacrificed a goat and a dog, then whipped women with the hides of the animals they had just slain.

The Roman romantics were drunk and they were naked. Young women would actually line up for the men to hit them. They believed this would make them fertile.

This puts a whole BDSM flavor on the holiday. Way to spice it up Rome!

This holiday is intended to be about love. But putting such a nasty restriction on such a yummy event seems silly.

I believe that when we celebrate, especially highly commercialized holidays, it should have a list of things we are celebrating with someone you at least kinda know. So for this Valentine’s Day here is the Dalia list of 5 reasons to give a card, present or sex:

  1. Orgasms – This is the number one reason to celebrate. If you are given them, then acknowledge the hell out of the one bestowing these gifts.
  2.  Oral – Hopefully this one goes with #1, but good oral should always be celebrated.
  3. Kissing – Someone who is an amazing kisser should be worshiped.
  4. Fondling – A good fondle can go a long way. Make sure you give a good acknowledgement of a job well done when you are stimulated.
  5. Hug – Being hugged right can push you into zone. If that happens make sure the hugger knows to keep up the good work.

I also think that when you masturbate and blow your own mind, this might be worthy of a box of your favorite caramels.

#Whoretip: You can have an amazing holiday without the pressure of deciding how to not do too much and also do just enough… to get you off!

I hope you have many good celebrations this V-Day!

xoxo

Dalia

P.S. If you want to read more fun stuff on the not so chocolate filled holiday click here.